When to spend and when to save on clothes? A detailed conversation to understand it & get solution & idea (female fashion advice)

When to spend and when to save on clothes? A detailed conversation to understand it & get solution & idea    (female fashion advice)


What pieces are worth spending more money on and when is it more cost effective to go cheap? How much is it worth to spend on certain things to get the best quality and longevity for the price? What can potentially last for a decade and what needs to be replaced often?
 



[–]coffee_for_dinnerValued Advice Giver
I think it depends on the person and their lifestyle. I personally spend more on coats and jackets (keeps me warm and looks good no matter what I'm wearing underneath), shoes that I wear on a day to day basis (needs to be comfortable, durable and preferably look good), and jeans (90% of my outfits include them).
Justine basically recaps exactly what I think about fashion spending in this video. Spend more on basics instead of the stuff you only wear for special occasions.

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[–]Acme_Co 9
100% agree. Jackets and shoes are a huge portion of my clothing costs. Not because I have a lot of them, but because what I do have cost a lot of money.
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[–]Hernandez999 7
I'm the same, I feel that cheap coats are thin and not very warm, and in addition they may crease easily. Spending a little bit more on one that has more wool in it and keeps you warm is worth it to me. Also a flattering and eyepleasing cut that is mostly timeless is worth the money. I've got a Gant cabin coat and MaxMara trench from 10 years ago that I could easily wear today because they've held up and they are cut in a way that is functional and inconspicuous (nothing outrageous or too different).
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[–]MsAnthropic
The advice about spending more on daily/frequent use items is on point. After years of spending too much on the wrong things, I've finally come around to this.
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[–]FuckingaFuck

I struggle to understand the "splurge on pieces to last a lifetime" mentality because I've never seen evidence that more expensive pieces last longer. I have a ten-year-old leather jacket that cost around $400, and I have ten-year-old, washed-300-times tops that I got for under $10 on clearance at Kohl's. Meanwhile, a $90 Calvin Klein dress doesn't hold up to armpit stains like a $30 JCPenney dress and requires the extra maintenance of dry cleaning. Even $20 shoes wear out in the same 5-6 years that $70 shoes do.
I say go cheap on everything and it'll last forever anyway.
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[–]OrigamiKoi
I think the thing here is that the quality difference in shoes isn't so obvious in the $20-70 range, it's more obvious when you get to $120+, imo.
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[–]FuckingaFuck
That makes sense. I don't have any experience with shoes over $70, but I would rather wear $20 shoes for 5 years and throw them away than wear $120 shoes for 10 years and throw them away.
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[–]OrigamiKoi
That's fair, it's not a worthwhile investment if it's not worth it to you.
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[–]foreignfishes
For shoes this is 100% not true. $20 shoes are going to be made with the absolute cheapest materials all glued together. Sometimes you get lucky and get a weirdly resilient pair, but a lot of times the glue comes apart, the material creases or breaks, or the thin soles wear through pretty quickly. The same style of shoe but $80 and made with real leather or thicker rubber/canvas is on average gonna last longer.
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[–]FuckingaFuck
I can only speak from experience. I've never had shoes break or wear out to become unusable, I just upgrade to new and throw out the old every 3-5 years.
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[–]foreignfishes
Yeah I mean like other people said, if it's not worth it for you personally to spend money on then it's not a good investment. I've basically completely given up on buying cheap shoes because of several bad experiences/huge blisters, but unlike some people here I really don't care that much about the perfect basic tee and would never spend a lot on one.
Also if you have a ton of pairs of shoes they definitely wear less quickly and last longer. My one friend swears by Payless ballet flats and says they last years for her, but she also owns like 12 different pairs and wears different ones all the time.

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[–]TequiIa_MockingBird_
Speaking generally, I think that shoes are worth spending money on. Not luxury money, per se, but there's a big difference between a 20 dollar pair of shoes and a 150 dollar pair of shoes. Shoes take a beating and it can make a difference for your long term health. Exception: I don't think expensive ballet flats are worth it because they just don't last very long, and special occasion shoes that you'll only wear once or twice
On the other hand, I try to not spend too much on tops. I'm a sweaty person and I spill things on myself constantly, so shirts aren't going to last too long around me. It's also pretty easy to find cute, decent quality shirts for cheap.
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[–]Hernandez999
I agree with you on shoes, a classic, quality leather boot is worth the money. However, I have had luck with Target Australia's basic canvas sneakers which were about $15. They've held up and are still going strong but then again I mostly just walk on fairly clean concrete paths for casual occasions. I also got a pair of brogues there which have been a godsend for the winter here: stepped into a deep puddle by accident but the shoes were waterproof somehow and my feet stayed dry inside. Now, heels on the other hand I would spend on because the more expensive ones seem more comfortable.
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[–]ysabeaublue
I always hear that flats don't last and am trying to figure out if I'm just an anomaly? Mine have lasted a minimum of 3 years - most longer. And I'm talking about regular abuse - caught in rain storms and puddles, walked across campuses, hills. Now granted, they die quicker than my boots and other shoes, which can last 5-10 years, but 3-5 years for flats I think is okay. Is that what you meant, in comparison to other shoes?
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[–]zurkritikdergewalt
I feel like there's no easy answer to this question, because I know people that swear by a brand. They got a pair of shoes there ten years ago and they are great. But the quality of the product now versus back then is much worse.
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[–]KyrridwenV
The most of your budget should go to the clothes you wear most, that are important to your overall look or are important to your well being. The latter is the case with shoes, winter coats and outdoor clothes.
Shoes, coats, pants, skirts, dresses and jackets/blazers are items that should last a long time depending on how stable your weight is and how well you care for them. These items tend to be worth getting tailored/altered (within reason) or made to measure to fit you better as well. Items that are less likely to last are button downs, T-shirts, blouses, sweaters, jumpers, cardigans, underwear, pantyhose and items made of soft/thin fabric. They are more prone to stains, cuts and damage from friction (e.g. pilling). Good quality button downs, if worn with an undershirt, and heavy knit sweaters tend to last the longest of these.
Quality markers are seam finish, type and thickness of the fabric and the overall finish of the garments. If they have poorly stitched seams, appear flimsy, do not have lining, etc., they're usually not worth your money. As logic dictates, be aware that there is a difference between summer and winter weight fabrics, this means that lighter weight is not necessarily a dis-qualifier as long as the quality is on par. Thicker, heavier fabrics tend to be suitable for fall/winter and thinner, lighter weight fabrics for spring/summer/(sub) tropical climates. Neutral solid colours and classic prints like pinstripe and houndstooth tend to remain in style.
Finally, the fit of your clothes is important to your overall look and your comfort. Structured items and button downs should always sit neatly on your shoulders, so neither hang down your arm nor come in towards your neck, and fit your bust and waist comfortably. Try them for fit the way you intend to wear them so they do not end up too small/uncomfortable, for example: a winter coat with a sweater underneath and a blazer with a blouse. In my opinion T-shirts and non-button down blouses also look neater if the shoulder seams align with the edge of your shoulders, but this is a matter of preference and some do not have shoulder seams at all. Your pants, skirts and dresses should hug your body gently but not pull. Slightly loose tends to look more professional/polished and is more comfortable than too tight. Of course it's fine to have tight clothes to wear to the club or so, but for your daily classics, they may not be a good investment (except skinny jeans).
Edit: Don't forget to consider your laundry routine. For example if you don't have the budget to get your clothes dry cleaned regularly but intend to wear them often and are likely to get them stained, try to avoid dry-clean only.
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[–]lovekiva
Don't forget to consider your laundry routine
Laundry routine is so, so important when it comes to longevity of clothes! Only washing when necessary, paying attention to the wash temperature, using an appropriate wash cycle, and air drying everything makes a massive difference.
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[–]KyrridwenV
Yes exactly and also the detergent is important: some are much better at preventing fading, bleed through and graying than others. Not all fabrics fare well with fabric softener, so that's a consideration as well.
Tip: you can use white vinegar as prewash to set the colours of new items and remove detergent buildup/sweaty smell from older ones. I treated an old cotton shirt yesterday and it worked like a charm. You don't smell it after washing either.
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[–]xxxvegeta
I think leather pieces in general are a good investment, especially jackets and belts.
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[–]HungLikeJesus
Wool socks are also totally worth the extra cost.
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[–]foreignfishes
Ya definitely. I'm currently wearing a pair of smartwool socks that my mom bought for me in 2006, when was the last time you had a pair of socks last 11 years??
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[–]cagedcat
hmmm...my socks vanish, so I don't know if they will last or not. :)
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[–]Lillyeth
I prefer to spend most on what I wear most, so basically shoes, outerwear, bags and basics. Tops (sweaters excluded) are where I save because I find that I can get decent quality tops without breaking the bank, mostly due to thrifting.
For me that doesn't mean that I have a closet full of luxury goods, but I wouldn't buy 20 dollar shoes. In general I prefer few quality items instead of having lots of variety but low quality items.
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[–]OrigamiKoi
I consider shoes an investment. I immediately resole any shoe (other than sneakers) that I buy so that nice leather soles don't get worn through and I can continue to wear them for years. Wool coats are another one. A good one will last several years of almost daily fall/winter wear. Leather in general is a good investment. Realistically, I don't buy that very many clothes will be a lifetime investment, but I'd hate to buy something that's worn out in a year, It'd be wasteful and I'd be sad.
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[–]syan22 2
I think it definitely depends on the person's lifestyle and I guess where they live. I am a shoe girl so I always try to do ample amounts of research on the specific pair of shoes I have my eyes on - this is something I would never go cheap on. You have to take care of your feet! Like what others have commented, coats, jackets and jeans should be of high quality. I wouldn't spend a lot on basics. I generally get my basics from uniqlo or muji and they're reasonably priced and of decent quality.
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[–]luckyratfoot
I spend more on shoes, socks, and underwear because I wear them everyday and they need to be perfectly comfortable. I buy a purse every few years and spend more because I use the same one everyday.
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[–]abeautyman
I think it really depends on what you enjoy wearing - me personally I wear the same pair of docs summer and winter until they literally cannot be not worn, so I'd say invest in a pair of shoes that will last a long time. In terms of winter, spending a little more on a good wool jacket or coat of any sort that will keep you warm, be worn in formal and informal situations will also be a big plus especially if it's a grey or black jacket - they will never go out of fashion if that's what you're looking for. I think generally speaking it also depends on how your peers dress around you. I know that being a uni student with little money means I always shop at Second hand places and op shops etc, they also tend to be the Best as you can find great clothes at a cheap price. I think you'd be surprised about how much 'nice' stuff is actually just op shop bought clothing.
To sum up I go by the 'if I don't need it then why but it' mindset but of course buying something nice can pay off if you sell it later on
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[–]TheAnxiousFox
I wear dresses most of the time so I try to invest in better quality ones, thin ones from F21 have always shrunk, ripped, and fallen apart. I usually spend $30-150 on a dress. Jeans I buy cheap and second hand. Tops are usually mid range, but some cheap basic ones are good too. Sweaters I go mid range. I invest in good shoes now because I started running and have had a few pain issues so I want to be preventive about major foot issues. I spent $90 on a pair of sandals for the first time in my life instead of $15 and it felt so wrong but boy are they comfortable and really helped me when I have to walk a lot. I retired ballet flats and have been seeking out good quality oxfords instead. I spend a lot on a good winter coat but I try to make it last 2-3 years since they are very expensive. But you can find good quality ones second hand too. I also invest in bras because I'm busty. Underwear and socks I go cheap.

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